This Should Be Simple
Girl meets boy, girl likes boy, boy is not dumb, and they live happily ever after. That’s how its supposed to work, right?
That would be way too simple for me…
Let’s try this instead: Girl meets boy, marries boy, has boy’s children, and divorces boy. Five minutes later, girl meets man, likes man, and is immediately confused as hell. Yep, that sums it up.
I don’t know what the rules are for this new world I’m in…and most likely the answer is that there are no rules…but at what point do I listen to my heart and at what point do I listen to my head? And which one gets the deciding vote?
I’ve heard that second marriages have some ungodly divorce rate…and whenever the day comes that I decide to marry again, I am NOT going through another divorce…oh hell no. But what timeline am I supposed to be on? And am I even qualified to know if what I’m feeling is real or if it’s wishful thinking or loneliness?
My gut says that its real, but 12 years ago, my gut thought I would be with The Ex forever, too…
Shouldn’t this be simple?