A Year Later…
A year ago today (my birthday, by the way), I started a new phase of my divorced, single mom life…we moved – new town, new home, new school…I can’t help but look back on the past year and marvel at how I’ve changed…
I’m better at the mom thing…by no means perfect, but better…
I can’t imagine living with another adult anymore…I’m used to my own space…not that I want to be single for the rest of my life, but I’m so used to being alone and doing (for the most part) what I want to do that it will be a big adjustment if that ever changes…
I’m more comfortable in my own skin…and growing more comfortable every day…
I know that I can handle whatever life throws at me…I still stress (a little)…and I’m a natural worrier but I’ve become less anxious…I don’t fret about the what-ifs…if something bad or crazy is going to happen, I have little say over it (assuming I’ve made good choices all along)…but I know that I can ride the wave of craziness and come out fine on the other side – maybe a little bruised and sore, but I know what I’m capable of…I know I can handle shit…and I know it’s ok to cry my eyes out while I’m taking care of things…
A year later, I got this!
Posted on October 30, 2012, in Independent Michaela and tagged capable, confidence, dating, Divorce, Family, life, Mother, Parenting, Relationships, Single-parent, stress, worry. Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.
One Day At A Time 
I’m on the verge of a divorce and I’m so happy to hear that you’re doing well! It gives me hope that my future might not suck.
I promise, it won’t suck. Just realize that the bad times don’t last forever, that you’re stronger than you know, and that your whole future lies ahead…and you’ll get through it…I promise!